There are a lot of guys out there with little financial strength who want to date, but stay away from women because of the widely misinformed idea that everything about dating completely revolves around money. What people like this do not know is that money isn’t as important to dating as they’re led to believe. I know a lot of women who do not prioritize money in dating and a lot of men who do not have much, yet they’re happily dating.
Dating is mostly about finding out your strengths, and then, using them to your advantage. The reason why most rich people put money ahead is because they know that’s what works for them (their strength). You just have to realise yours and use it to your advantage. After all, it’s not like money is going to do the talking for you. Even rich folks have to express themselves verbally. So, snap out of that negativity, and go find yourself a date, following these easy steps…
1. BUILD UP YOUR SELF CONFIDENCE LEVEL
The reason why most broke men do not date is majorly because they see themselves as ‘lesser men’. Therefore, before anything else, you must first of all, break away from that wrongful mode of thinking. Being broke is not exactly a curse; it’s just a temporary condition. Even the rich men of today were once broke at some point. So, it’s nothing new and it’s not peculiar to you. The important thing is to work towards changing your story. So think of yourself as you would a rich man. See yourself as adequate and capable of showing affection to any woman. That is the starting point for you. Do not belittle yourself or try to put yourself in a shell. Being broke doesn’t make you any less a man. Understand this.
2. DISCOVER WHAT WORKS FOR YOU
Everybody has what works for them in any given situation. You just need to realise yours and use it to your advantage. Rich folks flaunt money to attract some women because they understand that it is what will work for them. So what works for you, bro? Are you funny? Are you charismatic? Are you easygoing? Are you kind and subtle? Physically attractive? What is your selling point? Use it to your advantage. Let it be the most noticeable thing when people are around you. Just don’t take advantage of people. There’s a difference.
3. BE PHYSICALLY LIKABLE
What shall it profit anyone to have a dazzling personality, and an awful appearance? Absolutely nothing, bro. Yes, women have to see your dazzling personality, but not at the expense of a good outward appearance. No matter how funny you are, or kind and subtle, you will still not easily find yourself a date unless you are attractive on the outside as well. So try to look good, dress well (not necessarily expensive. We understand that you’re broke). Just make the most of the clothes at your disposal. Look clean, look neat, smell good, iron your clothes properly, and you’re on course to being physically likeable.
4. BE A ‘SWEET TALKER’
To get what you want, you need to use what you have towards that purpose. Remember, you’re lacking in the money department, so you must use other special skills to get what you want.
Women appreciate men who can sweep them off their feet with just a few words. Even a rich man can lose his woman to a sweet – talking guy. They are kings in the world of women. You too can be a sweet-talker. It’s easy. Just think of all the nice things to say to a woman, and use them when you’re with that person of interest. Tell her she’s beautiful, tell her she’s special, tell her she’s adorable, and say it with an honest smile. Women love to be admired.
5. THINK OF DECENT WAYS YOU CAN SPEND TIME TOGETHER WITHOUT SPENDING MUCH
You’re short on money, so you can’t go on a shopping spree in Dubai or go holidaying in London, but that doesn’t mean you cannot hang out— Your relationship would be boring and tasteless without it. You just need to spend very little while at it. The movies are a good example of a cheap hangout spot.
So guys, now, you know how to go about finding yourself a date and maintaining the relationship, even with little money in your bank account.
Your personality is a gift and there’s so much you can achieve with it. So, get up and go find yourself a good date, and be happy. It’s not a written law anywhere that you need to be rich to find love and happiness. Remember, the best things in life are free! Good luck!